I am so grateful to have friends that actually, really and
without judgment know me. They are
incredible gifts in my life. I am learning I no longer need to please everyone;
I no longer need everyone to like me. I
am becoming strong enough to say no when I am uncomfortable. The lesson has been to recognize before it is
too late, those that function in chaos, those that are incapable to seeing and
feeling others pain and those that suck my precious energy. I am not saying I am right and they are wrong, it is their life, their choices, but I do not need to understand it or be a part
of it. If it is uncomfortable I do not need to justify my feelings to anyone
but me. I honor them, I honor their choices,
but I do not have to participate in them physically, spiritually or emotionally.life, love,art. heart failure and assorted ramblings
Don't Talk Like That...
I write to find out what my heart thinks....
I am here to celebrate my life, to uncover my fears, to hold on to love, to grieve my losses, to laugh long and hard, and to learn how to live a full magnificent life with heart failure. I am honoring my creativity, and exploring all of my emotions out loud ...before anyone can say....."Don't talk like that!"
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Monday, October 10, 2016
it is my choice.....
I am so grateful to have friends that actually, really and
without judgment know me. They are
incredible gifts in my life. I am learning I no longer need to please everyone;
I no longer need everyone to like me. I
am becoming strong enough to say no when I am uncomfortable. The lesson has been to recognize before it is
too late, those that function in chaos, those that are incapable to seeing and
feeling others pain and those that suck my precious energy. I am not saying I am right and they are wrong, it is their life, their choices, but I do not need to understand it or be a part
of it. If it is uncomfortable I do not need to justify my feelings to anyone
but me. I honor them, I honor their choices,
but I do not have to participate in them physically, spiritually or emotionally.
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