life, love,art. heart failure and assorted ramblings

life, love,art. heart failure and assorted ramblings

Don't Talk Like That...

I write to find out what my heart thinks....

I write to expose and work through the ugly parts of this raunchy disease. My words always help me understand that in this life there will be times that are crappy painful and unexpected but tucked in there are the amazingly wonderful, too. That is when I realized the only control I have over any of this is how I chose to experience them! I realized that I could understand, celebrate can survive even better when I could express these feelings with my own words of courage, humor, and grace. I am the Queen of my own life and the choice is mine!

I am here to celebrate my life, to uncover my fears, to hold on to love, to grieve my losses, to laugh long and hard, and to learn how to live a full magnificent life with heart failure.

I am honoring my creativity, and exploring all of my emotions out loud ...before anyone can say....."Don't talk like that!"



Monday, June 1, 2015

and...I do not allow them...

If I give away my power, I also give them the power to take it away from me.
I know you must think this is so hard hearted, but in reality it is the best way I know to survive.  If I am not depending on anyone, then for the most part no one can disappoint, frustrate, or impact my general happiness.  It all becomes my responsibility….If I do not depend on others, then I am called to be 100% responsible for my own happiness and no one can take that from me unless I allow them to….and I do not allow them.  

"Arms Around My Life"  Janis Ian

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