Maybe it is age or maybe it is where I am in life or maybe I
am finally just getting smarter (well, maybe not) I have learned that 90% of
the anger, aggravation and hurt was of my own doing. For all of the grousing I have done about
other people’s expectation of me…I have realized that I had my own unreasonable
expectations of other people. Even when
their actions or words really had nothing to do with me, I would feel the need
to insert and defend my beliefs and opinions concerning the situation. Maybe it made me feel like I was smarter…or
if everyone did things “my way” my life would be so much easier…NOT! I am slugging through life like everyone else
and making enough mistakes for me and 3 other people. I am finally at a place where other people
and situations just do not rattle my chains anymore. It is not that I do not care I just choose to
not engage…saving my love, my life, my energy on happy and positive. I know it sounds kind of hokey…but it is
working!
"Times Like These" Jack Johnson
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