Why do I deny my own needs so they are comfortable, happy, and not angry?
Why do I allow them?
It is the time to turn my own finger around and point back at me…
The more I love and need, the more power I give them… I was taught that if I loved hard enough, did everything they wanted me to, and did not question,....they would love me...It does not work; I am not loved in the way I understand...no….the way I want to be loved. I am not ungrateful for the love I have and I am not blaming them, I am blaming me, maybe I have to come undone first before I can put together the strength, love and life I want. One day soon...you will not be able to undo me.
"32 Flavors" Ani DiFranco