life, love,art. heart failure and assorted ramblings

life, love,art. heart failure and assorted ramblings

Don't Talk Like That...

I write to find out what my heart thinks....
I am here to celebrate my life, to uncover my fears, to hold on to love, to grieve my losses, to laugh long and hard, and to learn how to live a full magnificent life with heart failure. I am honoring my creativity, and exploring all of my emotions out loud ...before anyone can say....."Don't talk like that!"


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Wednesday, June 18, 2025

NOT about what they think......


 Most of my life, including my art career, I depended on what people thought of me.  If I was well-behaved enough, I was a good little girl. As I grew older, I struggled to be a popular teenager, a good wife and a successful mother. Even in my older years, I had to be a good artist so they would buy my work. Now, I have to follow facility rules, see docs, have tests, take meds, and never complain.  I never felt good enough when I was just me.

Following necessary rules is one thing, but years of mashing me into socially “normal” roles defined by others must end. Maybe it is time I quit complaining or caring what other people think.  It is time for me to just be me. The way I think…the way I do things is going to have to be enough to be beautiful from now on.

Today I am grateful for: friends that are helping me sell my stuff, Luda, the housekeeper that takes care of my apartment, the good med-techs I have (but there are many more incompetent, disagreeable ones)

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