Sometimes we all have got to do ugly things! But I think that ugly sometimes is nothing more than an imagined expectation! And here we go again…it is all about expectations! Per my medical care/social worker…it was time…to finalize these ugly plans. Not that I am going anywhere anytime soon, but just to have this done while I am in full control….Apparently, they recognize what a control freak I am! I expected that making my own “final” arrangements was going to be a tear-jerking sorrowful event…actually… it turned out to be rather interesting…not scary at all! This part of the planning process has always been…an after the fact chore…when there is grief clouding the logical thought process. Turns out I had several people, things, art and artists in common with the owner and he was just easy going down to earth….not doom and gloom. It was an experience, not as bad as I thought it would be. And the most important thing is I am so very relieved that it is over!I am adding a new line to this quote…"and the biggest is... expectations block miracles!"
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