life, love,art. heart failure and assorted ramblings

life, love,art. heart failure and assorted ramblings

Don't Talk Like That...

I write to find out what my heart thinks....
I am here to celebrate my life, to uncover my fears, to hold on to love, to grieve my losses, to laugh long and hard, and to learn how to live a full magnificent life with heart failure. I am honoring my creativity, and exploring all of my emotions out loud ...before anyone can say....."Don't talk like that!"


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Sunday, December 7, 2025

Building Armatures (and me)



I have had such a great time exhibiting at Nude Nite in past years.  It is the only exhibition I apply to now. It is a huge difference from my past with gallery representations and  20+  yearly exhibitions and art shows all over the eastern seaboard. It was the job of my dreams and “we” (I always include Skip as a major ingredient in my success)  had such a great time and sold a lot of art! I miss what we were more than words can say.

One of the things I have suspected but have confirmed beyond a doubt is that “artist” is who and what I am”. It is all I have left of me. In past years I had plenty of descriptions I could identify with. I used to be a wife, a mother, a creative facilitator and a picture framer. Time passes and I cannot actively claim these titles anymore.

I did not know how much being an artist meant to me until this past month. I was describing this month's financial needs. I needed sculpture stands, clay, a pedestal, and of course, the jury fee.  I was met with kind but concerning responses. “Perhaps you could just go to the exhibition, enjoy the art and not put so much pressure on yourself to create, go before a jury and nervously wait to find out if my work is good enough to exhibit”.  I literally snapped back “Please do not take this from me”. This is the one exhibit I actually have the resources and space to make small pieces of sculpture.

At that moment, I realized I was really willing to stand up for my creativity. I have not stood for myself these past assisted living years. I need to create  work and then share it. This is who and what I am. This is defining me. I am rebuilding myself as a creative artist and loving it.