I know the people reading this blog, are most likely sick
and tired of hearing me “whine”…sorry…but from the very beginning writing has
been about getting unreasonable,
negative emotions out me while making room for new positive ones to arrive and
grow. It has indeed become a necessary
part of my healing and survival.
One of the things that has surprised me and perhaps been the
most difficult has been grief and loss.
Not because I am the only one to experience it, but because there was no
good set of “emotional” tools on how to deal with it. It seems as a society we just do not want to
deal with it or talk about it. We seem
to find it easy to share with each other the “normal”, acceptable, traditional feelings
of grief, and the basic time period that it should take to mourn, but most
difficult to find anyone that is willing to fess up to the strange and unusual
ones. The feelings and actions that we “closet”
away so no one will suspect that we are not normal and healthy."Say" John Mayer
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