Maybe this is part of the answer! I do not need an explanation from others. Nor should I be required to explain either, although I will confess that I would always like to get and give explanations for decisions and actions. But, if it makes you smile, feels good, and does
not hurt anyone…..then, shouldn't that be all the explanation needed. It is that “does not hurt anyone” that is the
tricky part of this equation. That is
where all of this gets really murky!
Connection to others is one of the things I honor the most, but I have not been so good at it lately. I have lost some of my
most treasured connections, partly because of my decision and partly because of
theirs. Both hurt equally as much. The explanation is it does not matter what I do,
when I do it, or how I do it eventually it is going to hurt me or those I
love. That is the explanation.
"Alone Again" Gilbert O'Sullivan
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